Text Sex: Dirty Texting Comes of Age

Text Sex

From the scandalous to the amorous, text sex is the new rage taking the country by storm! Some come by the practice curiously, while others are a bit more bewildered by the practice. From dirty talk to phone sex, from chat rooms to web cams, our sensual vocabulary has advanced through history along with modern technology.

This phenomenon may be a natural evolution as SMS messaging becomes more common or a result of newer phones with keyboards and cameras. Text sex could be all the rage as a result of people getting more accustomed to connecting using electronic messaging like email and IM.

And why not? Our trusty phones are likely as much a part of our persona as a computer ever was. We can use texting to have a steamy encounter in the solace of our homes, while traveling, or even in a room full of people. The most daring text sex location I’ve seen is going the distance in a car, also satisfying an exhibitionist desire of risking someone seeing.

Further, dirty texting provides multiple channels to help partners, errr, interface with one another. One girl I know likes for her partner to text her instructions while she describes the scene from her end. While some prefer to stick with texting, I’ve heard from someone who especially enjoys using MMS to send pictures and videos. The benefit of MMS is that it’s easy to keep a few of these gems on hand to remember your steamy text-capades. Obviously your partner is much more likely to feel comfortable texting such racy images if they are confident of the privacy of the pictures.

Check out our tips for heating up your Text Sex Life:

1. Start slow

  • Launching unexpectedly into X-Rated text sex could startle your partner and kill the mood.

2. Keep it fun

  • Text sex should be a fun and playful experience, not offensive or disrespectful.

3. Explore your limits

  • Do you like it rated R or do you like to take it further?

4. Switch it up

  • A well-timed dirty picture message or phone call can really get things going.

5. Get Creative

  • Tell your partner about your new ideas or fantasies via text sex- you never know where it might lead!

Share your text sex tips with us by leaving a comment!

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